I get soo many many messages daily about the impact I have on my submissive’s wives. I honestly do not care and no it is not a question or matter of innocence. They are not being hurt by anything I have personally done. What I do with my subs during fetish play is not cheating on a romantic relationship as BDSM is not exclusively romantic. Sex itself is not exclusively romantic. Therefore when I out pets to their wives I am just making them aware of a situation that has been going on.
Now whether they care or not is none of my concern and the impact it has on the marriage is of little consequence or matter to me. Many wives already knew their husbands dabbled in BDSM and dont care. They are annoyed they got a call about it though haha! For those that are devastated well… is them NOT nowing serving them any favors? Clearly they do not have a good enough relationship with their spouse that they know about the kinky side of their spouse or that their spouse is giving into that urge. The kink is then a cancer to the relationship and whether or not the wife knows bares no burden on me. I am simply then just the doctor telling the patient about the cancer. IT could be argued that I hurried the cancer along in my ill regard to stop the submissive from indulging but if it is one thing I have learned about humanity… if someone wants to do something, me saying no means they will just seek it elsewhere. That and I love power play myself so why not indulge?
A heartless view on the fetish? Perhaps, but what did you expect out of a true blackmail mistress? This is not just a fetish but a fun lifestyle that I get much gratification out of!
What? Feet? Blackmail? Yes, I have recently used My luscious long legs and feet to ensnare a pet in an unconventional way. You pets stare from afar and think I will never know your secrets and what really gets you going but I do and it is simple to figure out. All webmasters have access to seeing where people go when they navigate their website. I simply just have to pin point your ip address (easy!) then look at which posts grab your attention. POOF! I am in your head within moments and know what to use to trigger you!
I did this exact technique on a pet of mine and it worked brilliantly as always. I sent him photos I knew he would be too tempted to buy, video he couldn’t keep away from and mp3s that would blow his mind. Each reply gave me more information about him and insight as he fell deeper and deep for his Goddess. He wanted more of my feet and I wanted more of his information! Finally I had soo much he couldn’t help but just admit that I owned him! He paid me 2000 last night to delete all his information as he did not want enter into a formal contract. I am sure he will try to stay away for a little while, but just like the rest of you, he will come back because I am far too addicting!
Power play falls under the header of power control but to Me they are completely different. Power play is more.. playful as the term implies whereas power control is more long term and has real consequences. Power play is just what I coin as a ‘fetish head’ game. Something you do to dabble into the BDSM world but can be left behind. See? Power play is more innocent like a girlfriend that just wants a kinky spanking but doesn’t necessarily wish to be spanked EVERY TIME she has a sexual encounter.
So what does power play and power control have to do with blackmail? All blackmail is is a form of power control. It is a more serious struggle of who actually has the power. Sure secrets are hard to let out of the bag for some which is why many stay in a blackmailed relationship for so long BUT at some point if the relationship only holds those secrets and no other mind control or power play devices too it, the person under the control of blackmail will give and allow their secrets to be released.
I had an interesting conversation with a submissive recently about this very subject. Power play often goes with blackmail but if the two are linked for too long with a more intense form of power control to keep it from seeming too light and airy then the blackmail relationship will crumble; thus making power play not as innocent as some may think. I know I have lost some of you haha. This is a pitfall of being a therapist and loving psychology AND being a BDSM Mistress who loves blackmail!
My take is that power play is innocent when in the fetish realm without any other form of power control going with it. It is very useful in My blackmail relationships though to keep the submissive under my control but not seem too overbearing. If you are too harsh on a blackmail sub, they will just let go and wont care about consequences. BUT if you use fun power play games, they that fun and refreshing air that reminds the pet why they came to you in the first place remains. Now you do need to use harsher controls so that they do not, again, become too complacent and think the relationship is a joke but it is important not to be overly harsh always in a blackmail relationship.
SO what are your thoughts on power control and power play in the blackmail fetish arena? Leave a comment below if you dare or message me on yahoo about it!
Is it truly playing with fire when you engage a blackmail Mistress? This may seem like a DUH type of question but to those who have any experience in the fetish of blackmail it is a legitimate question. Many Dommes, including Myself, have other submissives who will never be blackmailed, EVER. You are indeed playing with fire as many of My pets who start with not desiring to be blackmailed get lured in by the flame and actually beg Me to do so after. At the end of the day it is a challenge to see if you can beat it and though many start with sense enough to know it is a dangerous fight they still desired to fall at the feet of a beautiful young Domme after seeing so many go before them.
This day is not original nor will stop repeating itself. Look to ancient myths, where champion after champion would rise to try and defeat the mighty mythical being and all fall. But it is the dream of being the glorious one to triumph where none previously have been able too that keeps the tale alive and the champions lining up. Or perhaps you believe honestly you can just spectate from the sidelines and go unnoticed. But like all that spectate, many dabble in the sport at some point and trust that is only to your detriment. Always to your detriment!
Just like one of My pets recently who thought he couldn’t bring himself to fill out My blackmail application recently. He did a few Niteflirt calls with Me, only to realize… I have a natural power over men and it was easy to gain control. Soon I had all his information without him even realizing I had taken it. See? You look away for a brief second and I change the game completely!
I have been coined the Mistress of Blackmail many times, simply because you can listen to the voice recordings of Myself outing pets to wives. You will find few real blackmail Mistresses online these days. I do dabble in fantasy but know that I have no problem with the real thing. I know how to expertly extract information out of any victim I deem worthy. As I have already prove my prowess if you will, My attentions come at a premium. I mean would you expect Jennifer Aniston to do a D list movie for 10 bucks just because you sweet talked her? No.. Even if you baited her telling her that if she was a REAL actress she would do it? … No.
Just like the greats of any genre, I have already shown what I am in a class all My own that I created. Again, other blackmail ‘dommes’ have come after and made similar claims but where is the proof? Sure Mine now requires you pay 15 dollars but with as many glowing reviews as I have… well… IT is a gamble WORTH risking. I am THE Blackmail Mistress and don’t you think for a minute that THAT is not true.
I get so many of you daily believing that I should chase you down, that some how you are magically worthy.. pfft. No.. If you wish for someone who has time on their hands and no pets already sucking away all their attention to chase you.. by all means find another ‘goddess’ to serve. Those that tribute Me first and show they are not a waste of My time are those who get more than one or two perfunctory answers. Why would someone who is otherwise entertained and inundated with slave requests wish to speak to a potential without proper tribute first? This Blackmail Mistress is in demand and time is a precious commodity that can not be retrieved after spent.. so if you want My time.. Make sure you SPEND first pets. Trust Me, you will not be thought of or missed if you miss your opportunity.
Now back to My 5 grand weekend. Thank you wallet wanker for the tributes after I got back from Vegas. I am frequenting there due to trade shows this year and this lucky pet paid for trip and gave Me 5 grand for coming back. I love pets who work to make Me happy.
Also worth mentioning is Michelle who is ever the good bitch for Goddess and always knows how to bring a smile to My face!
Are you unfamiliar with the merits of teamviewer? It is a simple program that one can use to access another person’s computer. I personally love it and for those pets that send Me gift cards it is a treat to rape not only their wallets but their computers. One of My favorite little louses recently hit Me up and paid a 300 gift rocket tribute to have Me access his computer. I found a wealth of information to which I began blackmailing him. Now before you freak out that I blackmailed someone against their will… if you let Me have access to your personal information, one can only assume you wish for Me to use it. Anything I use will always be for My own gain.
I found photos of not only him but his family which of course was used to make him shell out even more cash to the Ultimate Blackmail Mistress. What can I say? I am an original! I also went through his web history to find websites he had accounts on such as facebook and twitter. It was his linken account that held the most interest, I found out Mr Moneyclip * as I shall refer to him * actually has a vast array of political friends whom I knew he didn’t want to know his secret. Totally I took him for between Amazon and Gift Rocket was 3000 before the night was done. Yes it was a good day to be Me!
I truly wish to know why you pets leave yourself so wide open to attack online.. Richard, from those of you who follow Me on www.moneyovermen.com, has done that over and over. First I simply found his facebook page and subsequently is PREGNANT (at the time) girlfriend. This basically meant I had him by the balls but the only problem? Richard is a broke ass. I can milk perhaps 400 out of his lame ass a month strictly off the information I have on him but that is about it.
Simon though? He told me he read about poor Richard who to date still has information live on My main blog because he is too broke to get it removed. Simon thought he was real protected as he contacted Me via emails that weren’t associated with his real facebook account and didn’t use his real information. Simon thought he would be the one blackmail fetish head that could escape unscathed but alas he danced too close to the flames. Over time this block head also fell prey to My ways, as he slipped information such as loving his local country club. For most this would not be telling information but for Myself it was a wealth being as I had his real ip address from visiting My blog! From there I knew his city and state and well his city was small with only one feasible country club remotely near. He then told me about a golf tournament he entered and won third place and roughly the dates he went. I googled that country club’s website and BAM Simon Franklin.. awful name please slap your parents..
I then toyed with him and dropped information such as asking how was second place James doing? He knew he hadn’t revealed the real names of his friends so how did I know them? Because I am the Ultimate Blackmail Mistress that is how! He doubled backed and tried to quiz Me but I only showed I had MORE information from there. I could feel his sweat dripping of his brow from clear 300 miles away! He was stumped on how I had his information. It was too late though, I had screen capped everyone on his facebook friends list as his country club had a page and all I had to do was look at the likes to find him. His facebook page was open too which meant lots of photos I nabbed on top of links.
If mindfuckery is wrong, paint Me guilty as charged! This latest mp3 I believe to date is My biggest Masterpiece. Trust when I say I pulled no stops in making this mp3 happen! I used every psychological technique and pseudo lucid hypnosis technique in the book to prey on those of you weak to be blackmailed by Me. I even tranced Myself during the creation in order to ensure that those listening would indeed fall. You will hand over your information to Me and not even realize why or when you did. This mp3 is not making bold false promises about dragging you under but indeed is! No one who listens to this mp3 will be able to resist Me, not like you had a chance before.
So since My last posting, I have had some fun doing what I like to call blackmail pops. Blackmail pops are when I take information I have gathered and scare some of those who have been pestering Me with tidbits of what I know and milking those wallets but never actually taking them on. My websites get over 200k of new traffic and pets a month and I get hundreds of blackmail applications a day, I haven’t the time to actually blackmail all who approach Me. Still though, every once in a while when I find a spare moment or two, it is fun to watch someone who thought themselves safe and just playing with Me, to squirm when they realize they could easily be captured if I so chose. The submissive mind is one that I love to tinker with and bend to My will.
I have also been in works of My fetish related books. I am a published author and never thought to meld the world of fetish with My writing outside of My blogs. I have kept work and pleasure separate for the most part but I think now the two can share a path n’est pas? If you are interested in them I should be posting about them with in the month so stay tuned!
I am now over 10,000 feedback on there and heading quickly to 11k, it is very good to be Me ;). I have received many applications recently to be My blackmail submissive via Niteflirt. Who would have guessed I would become the number one sought after blackmail phone sex Mistress? Well I for one knew it! IT is simply because I have proof that I will call your wife. Feel free to go to dailymotion.com and type in My name and you will listen to a preview of what I have done to the first wife I outed so many years ago. Since then I have continued that tradition. I have several more mp3s that I keep to Myself as trophies and listen too that I have thought about releasing. I totally am in the coming weeks! I love watching these ladies squirm and you guys eat it up because you love My truest form of blackmail!
I have also raped some pets using paypal. Georgie girl is one of My latest pets dropping an impressive 3k on Me this weekend. He just couldn’t stop paying and paying for every request I gave him. I even texted his wife acting like a jealous ex lover to get her all angry and needed a girls day so she would leave the house. I had Georgie bang out some poppers and hop online and then I used TeamViewer to get even more blackmail information from his computer. Can you say OWNED? I can! OWNED OWNED OWNED by the fetish Mistress Amberly :). He is now one of My Blackmail submissives now. I dressed his forced intoxicated ass up like a girl and made him join chatroulette and dance for anyone and everyone. It was a fucking blast to see people’s responses live to his horrible rendition of I Feel Pretty. It was anything BUT a pretty sight. As long as those tributes keep rolling in his wife doesn’t have to know though!
The holidays are almost over and My bank account is almost bursting. I took a bit of a hiatus mid December and did move in November not to mention My Birthday but I was blown away by the response of you pets that have tributed during this time of My absence. This rarely happens as I know I am more than deserving ;). I am reworking My listings and all websites linked but then again I do believe that work is never done right?
I have also reworked My niteflirt customer listings to streamline those that want blackmail and those that do not. I get that for some, this is just a fantasy. You sit on the sidelines cheering Me on but would never want to get into the gridiron with Me. In a large way this is a huge stroke of My ever growing ego. At first, I balked at this idea… fantasy… please it is a waste of time. I know see it as the compliment that it is and intent to make more of My wares sideline friendly for those that wish for the fantasy. Do not fret though, most of My attentions remain with those that I blackmail.
I recently started a new vanilla business venture that has also kept Myself busy and having My ever loyal pet michelle bank roll it for Me. I wasn’t about to pay the start up fees of forming a proper LLC, beginning run manufacturing, trademarking and of course advertising… I made My sweet little blackmail sissy pay for it to the tune of 75,000. That money was straight wired to My bank account. After years of service I believe My sweet pet deserved the privilege of having My real information. What a treat! I mean it isn’t like she would dare betray Me given all the photos and video I have on My sweet sissy pet.
Ah to have an investor in My whims but no real partner to have to answer too.. So is My life as a Blackmail Mistress!